Failed Relationship or Marriage

Failed Relationship or Marriage.
In most cases, relationships we get into mean a lot to us and we have high hopes for them. When they fail, it could be due to many things that aren't working or one main issue that can't be fixed.
 
Over the years I have learned not to point fingers if I intend to move forward quickly. I identify where I could have been wrong or what I saw but didnt acknowledge. Its bitter but it's called taking responsibility and it really helps to move on.

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