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Failed Relationship or Marriage

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Failed Relationship or Marriage. In most cases, relationships we get into mean a lot to us and we have high hopes for them. When they fail, it could be due to many things that aren't working or one main issue that can't be fixed.   Over the years I have learned not to point fingers if I intend to move forward quickly. I identify where I could have been wrong or what I saw but didnt acknowledge. Its bitter but it's called taking responsibility and it really helps to move on.

What Does It Mean To Be Single?

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Not being hitched to a partner either romantic or not, either same sex or not gives you the opportunity to feel independent and make independent decisions however, it also opens up to you a feeling of loneliness. Being single is a time to get to understand yourself and what you are capable of, a time for self development and achievement because once a relationship of any sort begins, there will be limits and modifications to suit your partner. Some people even get lost in the desire to make the relationship work that they lose track of their goals and dreams. Being single is not a problem, it is a phase. Make the most of it while it lasts.

Valentine's Day Horror

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When couples begin to date or their first hangouts, unrealistic romantic expectations are not the best. Should that relationship survive into a marriage or prolonged dating, those expectations become real desires. Dont start what you cant finish/continue.  If you always buy her roses during this time of the year, just because the ring is on the finger now you feel it's no longer necessary. Instead dont start it. Some people are so afraid of being alone at this time of the year. The fact that you're single or just alone on Valentine's day doesn't mean you cant treat yourself to something sweet. Dont forget, if you dont LOVE yourself first how can you love anyone else?