SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

Sex Before Marriage

It may surprise you how different cultures react to this topic. In the olden days it was a noble thing for a woman to remain a virgin until she marries but the reality of things in the 21st century is quite different. The religious strongly encourage it for genuine reasons but others emphasize the importance of knowing your man properly before you say "I do".

Lets look at both sides: A woman who remains a virgin is said to be pure and undefiled  by any other man, she is regarded with a lot of respect though she does not know much of herself sexually and nothing about how to please her husband sexually in practice. A woman who is no longer a virgin is believed to have been sampled by other men. There are also risks involved in having sex before marriage; apart from contracting sexually transmitted diseases it is also quite common for relations to be built on sexual attraction which makes that relationship temporary.  

The reality of things is that virgin or no virgin, a woman's pride is in how she values herself, portrays herself and what she has achieved in her life. The personality of a woman (which should be the most important aspect when deciding on a wife) is not determined by whether she is a virgin or not.  

 I always ask women, what if you marry as a virgin and later realize your husband's sexual preferences/appetite involve things you just can not keep up with, isn't that too late? That is not to say sex with every man that comes into ones life is right, oh no! 

Also, how come it is just fine for a man to have had sex before marriage but not the woman?

What is your opinion on this?